Showing posts with label Basta Lovelife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Basta Lovelife. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Giving Lessons

I won this book a few months ago. In fact, I was the first winner of Kuya Kevin's book giveaway and I even made a review about the book. Well anyway, when Karen went here for an overnight stay, I decided to pass the book to her. I have always wanted her to read the book and I even told her to buy one but since she's a busy busy girl, she always forgets. So I gave her the book because I want her to reflect and realize many things and I need not tell what they are. I hope that in my own little way, I can help her be enlightened.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Review: Basta Lovelife

I have already finished reading the book and as promised, here’s my review. The book is not with me (a friend borrowed it) while I am writing this so I cannot give direct quotes from it.

When I skimmed the book, I laughed and said without exaggeration, “Oh no, this book is really for me.” I was already thrilled and read a few chapters that night. If I have to describe the book in three words, I have to say that Basta Lovelife is witty, precise and lighthearted. It’s entertaining too; but that’s already four words.

Okay, here are the stakes, if you are an experienced (by this I mean sexually duped, blinded by love, and just stupid) person like me you will find yourself laughing in some chapters and shedding a tear in some (I did). If you had experienced sex, you might regret why you did the act and not waited. If you’re heartbroken, you will really feel good when you read the book. If you’re searching for a new flame, you will be enlightened. Am I making sense or what?

What I really appreciate with the book is that it’s not preachy. I was given A Purpose Driven Life a few years ago and I haven’t finished reading it until now because I think it’s preachy (I’m sorry to the fans of this book, I’m giving it a fourth try next week). The biblical passages are cool enough for teenagers and ehem, shallow readers to understand. The stories cited are real life stories that we all have already encountered. I found myself associating the stories as: "Uy si ano to." "Uy, siya ito." "Haha ako ito."

How do I perceive the book? I think this is a great book to be given to the teenagers today and young adults as well. Virgin or not, this book will make us reflect on what our priorities should be. It offers us ideas on how to cope up with peer pressure, rejection, heartbreak and finding a mate. I recommend this book to be given to your friends as a gift.

What is my favorite line in the book? My words are not exact but it sounds like this: Men who abandon their children are lower than low. I don’t mean to sound bitter but this is so true. Another favorite line of mine is “the scars are still there but it doesn’t hurt anymore”, every time I remember this line, I feel a pang in my heart (pass me the tissue for I’m about to cry).

What made me cry? I cried to the first few chapters because of guilt perhaps of not waiting. But then again, I guess I have already paid my dues and I am facing the consequences of my actions with a stronger relationship with God. Life is too short to look back and indulge on regrets.

What is my favorite chapter? I guess it has to be the chapter where Kuya Kevin enumerated the Stupid Things that Women Say. I think this is hilarious and downright true. Ouch. Hahaha.

Did I learn something new? I learned about David and Bathsheba (ask me anything about the Bible –NOT), I also learned about masturbation being not clearly stated in the Bible as a sin. I have learned about cohabitation being a sin, and I thank myself for I never considered “living in” with anyone despite circumstances.

I have a personal relationship with God in a sense that I talk to Him whenever I want to. I don’t usually read the Bible nor do I memorize the verses and I seldom go to church. I always ask for guidance in whatever I do but yes, I was gullible (I think I still am). Reading the book inspires me to strengthen my relationship with God and not to lose hope about finding a lifetime partner. But now that I think about it, love can really wait. I am happy, I am contented, I am loved. That’s what really matters.

And for this, I have to thank you Kuya Kevin Sanders for picking me to be the winner of your book (you know I need this).
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